Advice to a Young Wife from an Old Mistress

Book excerpt: How can a relationship become like an enduring love affair? Eloquently told by a remarkable woman whose love affair lasted almost thirty years, this tender story gives specific ways to keep love fresh and growing. It also warns against some all too common things, big and small, that can take the life out of a marriage, or any relationship that lasts. Of utmost importance for lovers in all seasons of love is how to keep growing as an individual within the embrace of love. The author wants her reader to become the woman she is capable of being and is meant to be. Love can be an adventure, she writes, of "trying on" oneself, of discovering who she is, and thus gaining her own life and becoming her own woman. This is the kind of book that once you read it, you want to give to all of the women you know. It is a treasure that can save relationships and change lives.