It's Not You, It's Us

Book excerpt: This powerful new relationship book helps couples get more love in their lives, starting with themselves. It's Not You, It's Us: A Guide For Living Together Without Growing Apart helps couples who are planning to move in together, are living together, or married -- to be happier and more successful. It explores multiple topics like mixed faith unions, having kids, stepchildren and pets, sex and desire, codependency and emotional distance, division of labor, money, family issues, personal growth and happiness, privacy and personal space, communication, conflict, and other issues. Author Sophie Winters spent nearly two years researching and writing this guidebook. It draws real world examples from her own relationship, other couples, family therapists, a documentary filmmaker, and other authors and experts. This isn't your average relationship advice book: there are personal stories, examples, and exercises at the end of most chapters. Sophie even provides bonus materials for readers. You will have a hard time finding another relationship book that covers so many topics, so powerfully and so personally. With warmth and wisdom, Sophie shares the lessons on what it takes to live together without growing apart.