There Is a Lid for Every Pot

Book excerpt: We all want to find our ideal match, the lid that perfectly fits our own unique pot. But finding the right partner can often feel more like grunt work. Especially today where the modern dating world-with seemingly millions of new rules and conventions-can leave you feeling frazzled, discouraged, and frankly, unworthy. When you take that into account, it's clear that we all could use a little help. The problem with most modern dating advice, however, is that it can leave you feeling even worse off-focusing on what you lack and what you need to fix, rather than celebrating and affirming what you do have and the qualities that already make you a good match. In There is a Lid for Every Pot, Shae Primus, Certified Matchmaker and Dating Coach, gives practical advice to single professionals who are looking for a mate. From the insightful analysis on today's dating landscape to special exercises that help you go beyond the surface, to special affirmations designed to be positive and uplifting, There is a Lid For Every Pot Takes commonplace, shallow dating advice and turns it on its head. Instead of focusing on "getting" the guy or girl at all costs, readers can explore how to first be better people and better partners. They can take stock of and celebrate what makes them uniquely dateable, turning the age-old love game into one you'll actually want to play for a change.